This truly goes for both I feel and some days your partner might not be able to give you that 100%, some days just the 20% , that’s where you suck it up and pick up that 80% , being married or in a relationship, is a about being there through it all , even when your partner lacks at something sometimes. As long as it is not a forever lack. But all the other days absolutely , should be 100 % 100% .